I LOVE FAMILY.
MOTHERS ARE SPECIAL PEOPLE!! REMEMBER THAT IF YOU HAVE ONE!! YOU ONLY GET ONE!!
WE all know that most families are dysfunctional and I include mine also. There are some people who try very hard to make a family work and on the other hand their are some people in families that go out of their way to keep the drama going and fresh.
I'm sure that all families have peace makers,as well as hell raisers. A.K.A.(Little Hitlers). Also can be referred to as (Little Devils). Hitler and Satan had everything in common. "The Bible tells us that the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy". All happiness,peace,tranquillity your life and often time your prosperity.
We unfortunately live in a throw away society. We throw away Televisions, blenders,toasters and we don't take the time to fix anything anymore. Now a days some things are made to be thrown away. Some things are just to expensive to fix,so the obvious is to throw it away and replace the item.
Now also as families we throw away our family members. This is so so so sad that people, at some point in their lives they loose their Value as "HUMAN BEING". Really it doesn't matter what you may have contributed to your family or the sacrifices you may have made throughout your life for the greater good of this family.!!! After you throw away a once Valued family member,sometimes they can't be repaired or replaced. The only thing that matters is that members of these dysfunctional families meet their goals and high aspirations.
MOTHERS ARE SPECIAL PEOPLE.!! REMEMBER THAT IF YOU HAVE ONE!! YOU ONLY GET ONE!!
HONOR YOUR MOTHERS AS WELL AS YOU HONOR YOUR FATHERS.!!
YOU'LL MISS THOSE EYES WHEN THEY CLOSE.
When,this comes about it's to late to profess your love for that person because they can't hear you.
This put me in mind of the movie called, "Imitation of Life". This mothers daughter was embarrassed about everything her Mother tried to do. When she was gone it was to late to yell and cry. Much to late.!
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Monday, January 11, 2010
A Mothers Value-Two
My girlfriend is a good daughter. She tries so hard to have a relationship with her mother. Her mother put her out of the house with two small children and a new born baby,in the winter time.
Children all grown up now and she is still trying to have some type of meaningful existence. Just hasn't worked out so far. No matter what she does and she's always doing nice things for her mother but she just ends up being lie on.
All of her other daughters she treats them like china dolls and they do nothing for her. They also stand in the way and keep trouble brewing in the family. They even help uphold the continuous lies told about my friend, I'll call her the family (Out Cast),and it's so sad.
She is a mother trying to have a mother. This young lady is trying to follow Gods' teaching. Honor thy mother and father,so that your days will be long on this earth.
Children all grown up now and she is still trying to have some type of meaningful existence. Just hasn't worked out so far. No matter what she does and she's always doing nice things for her mother but she just ends up being lie on.
All of her other daughters she treats them like china dolls and they do nothing for her. They also stand in the way and keep trouble brewing in the family. They even help uphold the continuous lies told about my friend, I'll call her the family (Out Cast),and it's so sad.
She is a mother trying to have a mother. This young lady is trying to follow Gods' teaching. Honor thy mother and father,so that your days will be long on this earth.
A Mothers Value-One
I had a friend now he is not,because he has a very warped way of thinking about his mother. My ex-friend, I'll call him Walt. He has the most beautiful mother,she just had her eighty-fifth birthday. I really wish she was my mother and he told me that I can have her.
About four years ago he told me that his mothers' sister had passed away and he told me that he wished that it had been his mother passing instead of his Aunt. I was mortified to say the least.
I told him that I didn't appreciate hearing that because I longed for my mother so badly. A few years gone by now after Walt made this very ugly remark.
His mother calls me from time to time and I call once in a while only because I don't any trouble with Walt.
Walt told me that he was going to Texas for a Reunion at this place that helped him get clean and sober. I assume that this is where he had gone. His mother called me and asked me if I had heard from him and I told her what he told me about Texas.
A couple more weeks went by and his mom and I were keeping in touch because I was worried about her. Now,I had been calling and his Mom had been calling and one day when I called he answered the phone.
I said Oh! your back from Texas and he replied. I didn't go to Texas I've been here all the time. I just wanted to take a break from talking to people. I was furious.
Thank God my granddaughter call at the same time I was talking to that idiot, so I said can I call you back please my g'daughter is calling. Needless to say that was the last time I talked to him. He had his Mother and I both worried and he was at home listening to our calls.
Well it's bad enough to treat your mother like that but I'm not the one because when I care about people I care. That was the last straw!! Stick a fork in him because he's done.!!!
About four years ago he told me that his mothers' sister had passed away and he told me that he wished that it had been his mother passing instead of his Aunt. I was mortified to say the least.
I told him that I didn't appreciate hearing that because I longed for my mother so badly. A few years gone by now after Walt made this very ugly remark.
His mother calls me from time to time and I call once in a while only because I don't any trouble with Walt.
Walt told me that he was going to Texas for a Reunion at this place that helped him get clean and sober. I assume that this is where he had gone. His mother called me and asked me if I had heard from him and I told her what he told me about Texas.
A couple more weeks went by and his mom and I were keeping in touch because I was worried about her. Now,I had been calling and his Mom had been calling and one day when I called he answered the phone.
I said Oh! your back from Texas and he replied. I didn't go to Texas I've been here all the time. I just wanted to take a break from talking to people. I was furious.
Thank God my granddaughter call at the same time I was talking to that idiot, so I said can I call you back please my g'daughter is calling. Needless to say that was the last time I talked to him. He had his Mother and I both worried and he was at home listening to our calls.
Well it's bad enough to treat your mother like that but I'm not the one because when I care about people I care. That was the last straw!! Stick a fork in him because he's done.!!!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Christmas
Was nice. I was able to spend it with all my children and grandchildren in Florida. Good times,good food and great fun. My daughter Kim plan a lot of things for us to do and it was swell. Our favorite family game is Taboo and of course the team I was on, we won.
Disney Worlds' Epcot Center was very,very nice. This was and experience not soon to be forgotten. Pictures with Mickey Mouse,Minnie Mouse and friends,were especially nice.
We always try to see a movie together as a family. This year we went to see a movie called To Complicated. Yes, it was complicated but so much fun and I would like to see it again. As always it was so nice to see my children having so much fun and thinking to myself,wow am here with them.
Disney Worlds' Epcot Center was very,very nice. This was and experience not soon to be forgotten. Pictures with Mickey Mouse,Minnie Mouse and friends,were especially nice.
We always try to see a movie together as a family. This year we went to see a movie called To Complicated. Yes, it was complicated but so much fun and I would like to see it again. As always it was so nice to see my children having so much fun and thinking to myself,wow am here with them.
December 31 1982
This year and day was indeed a blast.
This was the day my first grandchild was born. Unlike any other day,it change my life for the better. Today she turned twenty-seven years of age. She says that I had some part in the early shaping years,of her life. I am so proud of her and all of her accomplishments.
When she was a baby and through her school years she has always been very tiny. We know now that size is not important because she is giant in her on right.
Young leader in non-profit,talk radio host,world traveler and public speaker. Just to name few things to let you know what a wonderful grandchild I have and the joy she brings to my life.
I love you Ro
This was the day my first grandchild was born. Unlike any other day,it change my life for the better. Today she turned twenty-seven years of age. She says that I had some part in the early shaping years,of her life. I am so proud of her and all of her accomplishments.
When she was a baby and through her school years she has always been very tiny. We know now that size is not important because she is giant in her on right.
Young leader in non-profit,talk radio host,world traveler and public speaker. Just to name few things to let you know what a wonderful grandchild I have and the joy she brings to my life.
I love you Ro
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
My father had secrets
I think of my,sweet mother always scrimping,for us to have the things that we needed. Always trying to make the best out of what she had. We always had a clean house, clothes and great meals. My mom was special lady!
Then, I think of my father and his sneaky ways. Always sneaking around the house hiding money. I was to little to know that this was something that I should tell my mother.
My father had many hiding places and I'll share a few of them. He would take rusty cans and fill them with a roll of money and dig holes and bury them in the back yard. Back in the those days they just had wood planks and not plastered walls and they would then use wall paper. The one that I feel so sad about is that he made a crack in the wall. The crack was right in front of my mom at the kitchen sink where she washed dishes every day. He'd peel back the wall paper and stick a can of money in the wall and then press the paper back down and it just looked like an old crack in the wall.
Thom,gave my mom what he thought she needed. I can't help but think, what if she knew? What would she have done?
More to come about Thom and his secrets.
Then, I think of my father and his sneaky ways. Always sneaking around the house hiding money. I was to little to know that this was something that I should tell my mother.
My father had many hiding places and I'll share a few of them. He would take rusty cans and fill them with a roll of money and dig holes and bury them in the back yard. Back in the those days they just had wood planks and not plastered walls and they would then use wall paper. The one that I feel so sad about is that he made a crack in the wall. The crack was right in front of my mom at the kitchen sink where she washed dishes every day. He'd peel back the wall paper and stick a can of money in the wall and then press the paper back down and it just looked like an old crack in the wall.
Thom,gave my mom what he thought she needed. I can't help but think, what if she knew? What would she have done?
More to come about Thom and his secrets.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Thom Don't Hurt Tennie
I love lemon meringue pie almost as much as I love sweet potato pie. Even though we were very poor my Dad always found a way to indulge me with some of the things that I wanted as a child. I remember on many occasions my Dad going to the store and he would buy these huge lemon meringue pies. Sometimes he would let me go and get them. Seems like to me because I was so small they looked like the biggest pies ever.
One day my Dad gave me a five dollar bill to go and get a pie. uh-ho! On this one particular day I lost the five dollars and I knew that it was five dollar bill because my Mother and Father were discussing the fact that I had lost the money. My Father wanted I guess to mess with my mother and make her think that he was whipping me. I didn't make it any better because I just yelled and and screamed like he was really hurting me. He used a piece of this old fashioned bushel basket made with thin pressed woven wood and wire handles on the side. Noway did it hurt and my Mom yelled out,Thom don't you hurt Tennie.
My mother was a very,very sweet lady and she never raised her voice,never spanked me and didn't allow my father to spank me.
One day my Dad gave me a five dollar bill to go and get a pie. uh-ho! On this one particular day I lost the five dollars and I knew that it was five dollar bill because my Mother and Father were discussing the fact that I had lost the money. My Father wanted I guess to mess with my mother and make her think that he was whipping me. I didn't make it any better because I just yelled and and screamed like he was really hurting me. He used a piece of this old fashioned bushel basket made with thin pressed woven wood and wire handles on the side. Noway did it hurt and my Mom yelled out,Thom don't you hurt Tennie.
My mother was a very,very sweet lady and she never raised her voice,never spanked me and didn't allow my father to spank me.
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